My nephew’s up. “Wanna go for a bike ride?” Dealing with a young male, to paint in broad
brushstrokes, is different than with a young gal. At least this young male and my young
females. He responds without
thinking. “Sure.”
We decide to head
in to town. It’s an unambitious ride of
five minutes down the path. He seems to
think it’s very bumpy. I suppose it is
bumpy but then, the pathway isn’t paved.
It’s just gravel and earth.
There in town
there’s a pedestrian mall and we park our bikes. I ask him if there’s anything he wants to
eat. “Would you like a hot dog from this
hot dog man?” Were I to have been his
age, I almost certainly would have replied “Sure.” But he says “Nah. Can I have a Fanta?” “Sure.” I reply. The hot dog man isn’t there. We wait for a while and he finally shows. He seems to be in the middle of other things
but now, we have secured our soda.
Off to the side is
a table with two tables and an outdoor chess set. All the pieces are there. “Would you like to play chess?” I ask. “Sure.” He responds. Now we are in the middle of one and then
another vicious struggle between good and evil, him vs. me. Me vs. him.
I find my temperament very pushy, always willing to make equal exchanges
of my court, as long as it keeps the opponent on the defensive. This works well, unless you’re playing with
someone who knows what they’re doing.
Later, everyone is
shocked that we’ve been away so long. We
walk the bikes back up the hill, below the porch and everyone asks if we’ve
been biking all this time. Neither of us
need to consult the other and respond full throated. “Sure.”
Saturday, 08/31/19
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